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Monday, 13 September 2010
Abusive Relationships
This type of abuse consists of the abuser brain washing the victim. The abuser will put the victim down all the time. They will tear away all self-confidence with insults. They will criticize the victim and the victim will have no self-esteem so they want to cling to the abuser so afraid that they will not find anyone else. Emotional abuse can be worse than physical, since the scars cannot be seen.

Abusive relationships can happen at any age.We have a tendency to think that abusive relationships transpire to the young for the reason that they are naive and do not have an adequate amount of experience in relationships. Many mature citizens will have remained in abusive relationships for numerous years. There are others that might have got into an abusive relationship after a marriage break up or if they have been widowed.

Many of them are not up to date, however they give us some indication of the scale of the problem. Also these figures are not comprehensive as the extent of the problem is not really known because of the under reporting that occurs.

It is a red herring, and takes the focus away from where it needs to be and that is addressing the huge issue of violence against women, which is at epidemic proportions throughout the world.That is not to deny there are some women who are abusive, but there is no way that the incidence of women being abusive to men is comparable.

Whenever statistics are mentioned this is usually referring to the narrow end of the spectrum. It only refers to physical abuse, and only what is known. It does not include mentally abusive relationships or emotionally abusive relationships.

Abusive men are nice at the start of the relationship but work fast to gain control of you. They will subtly isolate you from your friends and family and lower your self esteem. Never give up any of your friends or family. These men isolate you from them because it is easier to control you. Abusive men cannot handle others getting attention from you. They feel jealous, insecure and powerless if they do not have every minute of your time. These men cannot handle these feelings.

People in emotionally abusive relationships face verbal emotional abuse on a constant and frequent basis. The abuser might believe they are trying to guide or teach the other person, but the way they do it only leads to the other person losing their self confidence, sense or worth and self esteem. It is not that the abuser does not know how to communicate; they want to be in control of everything, which includes everything you know how to do. They intentionally use fear, guilt and humiliation to lower you to a level where they can have their way all the time. Not having control overwhelms the abuser.

The outcomes of women being in abusive relationships highlights the contrast, and the evidence against, the panic associated with so-called terrorism.Terrorism in the home throughout the world, is gigantic in comparison, yet barely gets a mention, and peanuts is spent on dealing with it in any meaningful way.

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